As Thanksgiving approaches, gratitude is on everyone’s mind. We hear about it in sermons, read about it in devotionals, and see it all over social media. It’s a season that calls us to reflect on our blessings and the goodness of God.
But what happens when we’re struggling to feel grateful? What if, deep down, we’re battling feelings of being unseen or unappreciated?
The Quiet Ache of Feeling Unseen
I’ve been there—pouring my heart into my work, my family, or my ministry, and wondering if anyone even notices. The whispers of doubt creep in: Does any of this matter? Does anyone see what I’m doing? It’s easy to feel like our efforts go unnoticed and our contributions are overlooked.
If you’ve felt this way, you’re not alone. In fact, many of the strongest believers in the Bible experienced similar struggles. Even Jesus Himself, during His time on earth, faced rejection and lack of appreciation from those closest to Him. Yet, He continued His mission, driven not by human approval but by His Father’s love.
God’s Word Speaks Into Our Struggles
In these moments of feeling unappreciated, I’ve found incredible comfort in Scripture. One verse that always stands out is:
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters. Since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” — Colossians 3:23-24
This verse reminds us that our work, whether seen or unseen by others, matters to God. He sees every effort, every sacrifice, and every moment we pour into what He’s called us to do. When we shift our perspective and remember that we’re serving the Lord—not seeking human approval—our hearts find peace and purpose.
Practical Steps to Find Encouragement
- Turn to God in Prayer: When feelings of unappreciation creep in, bring them to God. He understands your heart better than anyone and wants to fill those empty spaces with His love.
- Meditate on His Promises: Fill your mind with His Word. Verses like Psalm 139:1-4 remind us that God knows us intimately and values us deeply.
- Celebrate Small Wins: Take time to recognize the small victories and blessings in your life. Gratitude, even in the small things, shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have.
- Connect with Others: Share your struggles with trusted friends or in your faith community. Sometimes, we find that others feel the same way and can offer encouragement and perspective.
You Are Deeply Valued
This Thanksgiving, as you reflect on what you’re grateful for, remember this: You are seen. You are loved. And your work matters more than you realize. Even when human eyes overlook your efforts, God’s eyes never do.
In this week’s video, I’m diving deeper into this topic, offering practical insights and Scriptures to help you find strength and encouragement. If you’re feeling unseen, I truly believe this message is for you.
Let’s walk into this season with hearts full of gratitude—not just for the blessings we see, but for the assurance that we are seen, loved, and valued by our Heavenly Father.
